Wednesday, September 22, 2010

Is this Just an Okay?


Why do people get divorced? Is it because they don’t love each other anymore? Many families probably go through this, but who is the one that is haunted with those thoughts? Studies show that children are affected the hardest. You’ll find that there are lots of friends whose parents are divorce and you might not feel very bad about it but image how they feel? You can only feel the tension and the depression that that person is feeling if you go through it.

If you where in that situation youd probably be impelled to feel reclusive and might be tremulous to express your feelings to your parents. You might wonder if you could have helped to prevent the split. Others might wish they had prevented arguments by work together within the family, doing better with your behavior, getting better grades or wished you'd kept quiet so the irascible parents wouldn’t get mad. You may feel despondent or relived because of the tension going on at home.

I would say that parents going through a divorcing have to be strong and confident especially yourself. I also think that parent as well as children would still feel profound sadness, anger, or depression butthat’s okay because the interminable and abhorrent feelings will disappear with time and you will find yourself back to normal…in a way.

4 comments:

  1. Nicely done. the word is abhorrent in that sentence.

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  2. Thanks mrs.meadows Im going to change that:)

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  3. Luciana I understand what you are going through 101%. It's rough, but I've come to realize we just have to be happy that we had a family where we shared lots of happy memories and nothing could change that. Not even the breaking of it....
    One day we just have to let go of all of that anger, depression, and sadness towards our parents for doing this to the family, and move on, which is the hardest thing ever, but can somehow be done (I'm still in the healing process too).
    Anyways hope everything turns out all right:)

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